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i get that life is hard and that you had to start over more than once that part actually helps. thanks.
survival and liking it are not the same thing. i will do the stuff that keeps me alive. i just do not want that to be the whole answer.
"be whatever you want" is the part that does not fit my situation. college is non-negotiable. mom only agreed to this gap year with terms. so i am trying to decide fast.
as i said, even thinking some kind of military just to be able to move out. seems like military will stay relevant as long as there are nation-states. a friend decided to go that route and do some drone stuff. does not feel right.
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You can't say survival skills and do not like it in the same sentence.
You are young I get it but the reality is life is hard and you will have to do plenty of things in life you do not like.
Those things will make your life better.
That's where you learn to be resilient, gain confidence and overcome things.
If you had all of those you wouldn't be wandering aimlessly like you are now.
Learning isn't easy.
What you need to learn to do is to try and push through.
As for having to pick.
Pffttt that's BS you don't have to pick shit.
Be whatever you want to be.
I'm on my 5th career in my life. I've lost more money than you could imagine and started over 3 times.
If you are a young man what you need is a trade where you use your hands and you are out in the world. HVAC, plumbing, electrical, and more. Those are all excellent hands on careers for men.
Go the STEM route and you will be set for life.
You will learn and earn forever.